How to be iconic on a scale of 1 to 10? Easy—it’s Chappell Roan because she *completely* obliterates the scale!
Ever since that unforgettable moment when she told a photographer to “shut the fu*k up,” she’s been living rent-free in my mind, and I’m officially obsessed. She oozes alpha female energy, and I’m here for all of it.
Now, I’m feeling a deep dive into her love life is in order—because I need to know if her exes could even come close to matching that boss-level vibe she radiates. Were they giving alpha energy, or were they just… meh? Time to find out!
Roan Has Written Songs About The Relationships She’s Had
If there’s one thing Chappell Roan knows how to do, it’s command attention—and she did just that at the VMAs pre-show when she casually dropped that she’d dedicate her Best New Artist win to her ex.
Yep, she’s not holding back! Roan’s always been open about her past relationships, and she’s not afraid to put it all out there.
Case in point? Her viral track “Good Luck, Babe!” seems to take direct aim at one of her former partners.
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In an interview, she revealed that the song was written in just three minutes after being overwhelmed with “so much anger” and feeling “upset,” theygossip.com reports.
She described it as a message to someone “denying fate,” and let’s just say, the tea is piping hot!
Roan has not held back when it comes to talking about her ex (or exes) since her meteoric rise this year, and in case you did not know it – she has been linked to both boys and girls. Honestly, this just makes her love life even more interesting!!
And if you couldn’t already tell from the tone of my voice/writing – I am four times more excited to dive into this tea.
Roan’s romance history is giving us all the drama, and I am here for it. Let’s get into all the details of her past flames and the moments she spilled tea on them!!
Chappell Roan’s Boyfriends
While Chappell is all about celebrating her queer identity these days, she’s had her fair share of ex-boyfriends.
In fact, some of her iconic queer anthems like “Red Wine Supernova” and “Naked in Manhattan” were inspired by her fantasies of women while she was still dating a man.
When her breakout queer anthem “Pink Pony Club” dropped in April 2020, she had just ended a four-and-a-half-year relationship, which, based on the timing, was presumably with a guy.
But since moving to L.A., Chappell’s feelings on dating men have definitely shifted.
Even though the songs were written while she was dating guys, Roan had said that she started fantasizing about kissing girls.
Chappell implied the relationship was with a man, describing it as anything but enjoyable. She shared that dating a guy “wasn’t fun, exciting, or even remotely interesting—it was just plain boring.” We stan people who know what they want in life!!
Liking Girls and Having Relationships With Them
She began to think that maybe she liked girls when she was in seventh grade.
For Chappell girls were prettier and nicer, and she honestly just enjoyed being around them more.
This realization lingered with her throughout high school, but instead of embracing it, she tried to laugh it off, joking that it was just a phase and something funny, and later on she came out as queer.
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Roan has opened up about one relationship she had with a girl who was the inspiration behind her song “Kaleidoscope”
Chappell has also said that queer relationships can be incredibly challenging. Oh and based on the song we like to think it was a friends-to-lovers romance which did not work out!!
And even though her relationships fail Roan likes to make fun of them!! It’s undeniably entertaining to watch Roan poke fun at her past failed relationships—because, let’s be real, we’ve all been there.