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Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck: Inside the Rumors, Personality Conflicts, and Efforts to Save Their Relationship

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I never thought I’d see the day when Bennifer would break up. It’s a reminder that even the most legendary romances can come to an end for all sorts of reasons.

But let’s stop feeling bummed about what’s happened and focus on what’s going on with them now.

There’s a lot of buzz about their marriage possibly ending, and many sources are sharing fresh insights about Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s relationship.

Rumors are swirling about potential disagreements and tensions that have surfaced in their day-to-day lives, theygossip.com reports.

Some insiders claim that the pressures of their busy careers and the constant scrutiny from the media have taken a toll on their once-flourishing romance. 

Others suggest that the couple is simply navigating the typical ups and downs of married life, which can be challenging even for the most devoted partners.

So, I thought it’d be cool to gather all the info in one place. This way, I can enjoy writing, and you can get all the details without jumping from site to site. I’m ready to spill all the tea right here.

Irreconcilable Differences As The Reason of Divorce 

Jennifer Lopez has cited irreconcilable differences for her breakup with Ben Affleck, just two years after they got married. 

She filed for divorce on the second anniversary of their wedding in Georgia, marking their separation date as April 26.

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Jennifer Lopez Wants to Go by Her Maiden Name

Jennifer Lopez is requesting a judge to revert her name to her maiden name. In her divorce filing, she noted that her legal name has been Jennifer Lynn Affleck since tying the knot with Ben Affleck in 2022, and now she wants to go back to being Jennifer Lynn Lopez.

Bennifer are Heartbroken About the Divorce

A source close to Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck revealed that the couple was “heartbroken” over their decision to split. According to the insider, they genuinely tried to make the relationship work. 

The source mentioned that both Jennifer and Ben are “in love with love,” which led them to dive into the relationship quickly. 

However, differences in their personalities were a significant factor in the breakup. Jennifer is more public and enjoys going out, while Ben is more introverted and prefers staying at home.

JLo Helped Ben Become A Family Man

Jennifer Lopez is said to have played a big role in helping Ben Affleck embrace family life before they went their separate ways. 

An insider revealed that after tying the knot in July 2022, they focused on blending their families. 

Affleck has three kids with his ex, Jennifer Garner, and Lopez has twins with her ex, Marc Anthony. 

Since getting back together in 2021, they often took their kids out for fun activities. 

However, the source pointed out that Lopez and Affleck have very different personalities—Lopez is more outgoing and loves being in the spotlight, while Affleck tends to be more reserved and enjoys staying in.

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Ben Affleck Called ‘Selifsh’ Amid Divorce

Jennifer Lopez’s recent divorce from Ben Affleck is turning out to be more complicated than just the usual “irreconcilable differences.” 

Sources say that Affleck was reportedly “selfish, moody, and quite the chatterbox” throughout their two years together. 

Interestingly, Lopez isn’t asking for spousal support, which suggests that they won’t be fighting over money in their split.

Lingering Rumors and Signs of Trouble

During the summer, whispers about a troubled relationship circulated since the couple hadn’t been seen together for months or marked any special events. 

Sources claimed that Affleck was “hard to be married to,” with pals pointing out his negative vibes and tough personality. Lopez apparently tried to boost his mood but eventually found it too draining.

Efforts to Save the Marriage

Jennifer apparently tried one last time to patch things up in her marriage, but Affleck just wasn’t feeling it. 

The constant gossip was said to be really tough for Lopez to handle, and in the end, all the negativity got to be too much, prompting her to call it quits.

Lopez’s Decision to Move On

Reports suggest that Lopez finally decided she was “done waiting” for Affleck to make a change, leading her to take the tough step of moving on. 

She’s feeling heartbroken, particularly for their kids, but knows she has to put herself first. Even though it’s disappointing, Lopez didn’t see any indication from Affleck that he was interested in keeping the marriage alive.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck

Amicable Separation and Financial Matters

The couple plans to separate amicably without financial disputes. Despite not having a prenuptial agreement, the divorce is expected to proceed smoothly. 

They are already selling their $60 million Beverly Hills mansion, while Affleck has purchased a new home in Los Angeles for $20.5 million.

Jennifer Garner’s Role in Their Marriage

Affleck’s ex-wife, Jennifer Garner, was caught in the middle, often acting as a mediator. Insiders revealed that Garner felt used as a “pawn” in Lopez’s efforts to repair her marriage. Despite this, her primary concern remained Affleck’s well-being and sobriety.

Lopez’s Unique Approach to Divorce

Lopez decided to handle her divorce paperwork solo, skipping the lawyer route, which shows she’s eager to move on quickly. 

Legal experts think this move clearly shows she’s ready to take charge and embrace her independence. 

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Affleck’s Family Time and Recent Happenings

Before the divorce news broke, Affleck took a trip to Japan with his ex-wife Jennifer Garner and their kids. 

He was also seen dropping off their daughter Violet at college. Throughout the summer, he was spotted wearing and not wearing his wedding ring, which fueled the split rumors even more.

Elsa Gecaj
Elsa Gecaj
Elsa is a Gossip Columnist at TheyGossip news. She holds a Master's Degree in Journalism and Mass Communication from the University of Pristina, specializing in investigative journalism, infotainment, and fact-checking. She’s a reporter who enjoys covering about intimate relationship, celebrity news, and entertainment news. Besides her passion for journalism, she enjoys practicing yoga, singing along to her favorite songs, and painting landscapes. contact: elsa-gecaj@theygossip.com

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