When Sophie Turner and Joe Jonas announced their split, saying fans were devastated would be the understatement of the century.
Like, the Sophie Turner and Joe Jonas—two of the hottest people on the planet—calling it quits? Heartbreak is real.
Joe has pretty much been living rent-free in our minds since his epic cover of Umbrella started blowing up on TikTok (we’ve all watched it on repeat, right?).
And Sophie? She’s always been a queen in our eyes, with her stunning red-carpet moments and iconic role as Sansa Stark.
Now, she has a blossoming romance with British aristocrat Peregrine Pearson, and, well, we’re obsessed with every update.
But let’s rewind to what made Joe and Sophie’s four-year marriage the relationship we couldn’t stop rooting for.
Their love story gave us plenty of “aww” moments, but it also brought some hard-hitting lessons that are worth holding onto. Breakups, after all, can teach us just as much as a great love story, TheyGossip.com reports.
So, for anyone out there needing some relationship lessons (and let’s be real, who doesn’t?), let’s dive into a few gems from Sophie and Joe’s relationship.
They might not be together anymore, but the love lessons they’ve left us? Priceless.
Stay Strong Through Distance
With Joe on tour and Sophie filming around the world, they managed long periods apart.
Their relationship showed us that distance can work if both partners stay committed, communicate openly, and make an effort to reconnect.
Joe and Sophie
Be Open to Growing Together
They both entered the relationship young, but it was clear they were both committed to growing with each other, and adapting to each new stage of life. Growth is inevitable in any relationship, and being open to change is essential.
It’s Okay to Seek Help
There were rumors they sought couple’s counseling before their split, and this shows it’s okay to seek support when things get tough. Therapy can be a proactive way to navigate challenges together.
Let Your Relationship Evolve Naturally
They didn’t rush into anything—they took their time, from dating to engagement and marriage. Letting the relationship evolve without forcing any timelines can allow both people to grow together authentically.
Understand When It’s Time to Let Go
Ending a marriage is never easy, but sometimes love means knowing when to let go. Their split was amicable, proving that breaking up doesn’t erase the good memories or invalidate the relationship’s impact.
Always Keep Self-Care in Focus
Sophie and Joe’s split reminded us of the importance of putting your own needs and happiness first.
Relationships are incredible, but knowing yourself, prioritizing your mental health, and ensuring your needs are met is crucial, even when you’re in love.
Show Love in Both Big and Small Ways
Joe and Sophie were all about grand gestures, like their surprise Las Vegas wedding, but they also cherished quiet, private moments together.
Love thrives when you show it consistently, both in big gestures and small, everyday actions.
Embrace Each Other’s Weirdness
Joe and Sophie were famously quirky, and they never tried to hide it. They showed that embracing each other’s uniqueness and quirks is essential—it creates a safe space where both people can feel truly accepted.
Joe and Sophie were married for four years
Create Traditions Together
From celebrating each other’s birthdays to annual vacations, they had special ways of marking the passage of time. Creating traditions, no matter how small, can give a relationship more depth and meaning.
Stand Up for Each Other Publicly and Privately
Sophie and Joe were always there to defend each other from criticism or public scrutiny, showing the importance of loyalty.
Standing by your partner, whether it’s in public or private, builds trust and security in the relationship.
Be Realistic About Love and Growth
Joe and Sophie acknowledged the reality of love—it’s not always perfect, and sometimes growth means going in different directions.
Relationships require compromise, and sometimes they mean accepting hard truths for the sake of both people’s well-being.
Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner
Don’t Be Afraid of Rebuilding Post-Breakup
Although they’ve parted ways, they seem to be approaching their new lives with positivity and maturity.
Their breakup shows that it’s possible to heal, move forward, and build a new chapter, whether it’s as co-parents, friends, or independent individuals.
